Getting Your Ex Back The Right Way – Tactics?
If your relationship used to be a good one then it’s definitely worth putting in a lot of effort to try and repair it. But how do you fix your relationship?
I know it’s difficult to know where to start or even decide whether it’s possible or not, But your best rule-of-thumb is deciding just how good you got on with your ex before you broke up.
The better your relationship was, the more likely you can succeed.
Are there ANY ways that really work to get my ex back ? It’s a good question, in truth, most relationships can be saved, even after a breakup. As I said, a lot depends in just how good your relationship used to be.
Bear in mind that some relationships are better off staying broken up, even if you have a lot of feelings for your ex, it doesn’t mean that your relationship with your ex is right for you.
Relationships can breakup after only a few months, a few years, or even after decades. The reasons are numerous and some are harder to fix than others.
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Also, some breakups can be fixed quickly and others will take a bit longer. Nothing is ever certain, but when you’re trying to decide if getting back together is possible, then take heart, relationships breakup and get back together again all the time.
If you go about it the right way, your chances will be greatly improved. (this video explains it really well.)
Immediately after a breakup, you will find that you are confused, hurt, feeling rejected if you were the one that was dumped, and your self-esteem will have taken a hit as well.
You need to regain your belief in yourself, build up your confidence and self-worth. Remember if you really believe something is possible, it usually is, and you’ll find a way to make it happen.
So, this is a good chance to take some time for yourself.
Remember who you are, the real you. Your relationship will have changed you in some respect.
Get back in touch with the person you were before you became a couple.
Then, you will need to decide if you really do want to get your ex back, only you can make this decision.
Time is something that is on your side when you are trying to reconcile with your ex. I know it sounds strange, but if you give your ex some time and space, all the reasons that caused your breakup in the first place will lose some of it’s importance.
It’s just the way the human brain works. We tend to remember the good things and forget the bad.
There are other reasons to be patient.
You have to let all the emotions and high tension subside. It all builds up during your breakup and it’s preventing you both from getting close enough to sort your problems out.
You both have hurt and regrets that are just getting in the way.
You have to think clearly and positively so that whenever you have any contact with your ex, you will be able to control yourself and avoid any conflicts or arguments that may arise.
This is really important, you must never have any disagreements while you are trying to get your ex back, fighting and arguing will only reinforce the reasons for your breakup in your ex’s mind.
Allowing yourself a little time apart from your ex, without trying to make contact with them, will let things simmer down and when you don’t have any contact it will be easier for you to remain upbeat and positive.
Try and be the same person you were when you first started going out together. This will help to trigger the good memories and help to make your ex miss you.
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Getting back with your ex doesn't have to be difficult!