Why Is Getting Him Back So Hard?
Why are so many ex girlfriends baffled by trying to get their ex boyfriend back when thousands of other girls in the same situation seem to manage with little or no trouble at all?
The short answer is, it comes down to two little things and, as we’ll see, fundamentally, just ONE little thing.
The first one is simply human response. Whenever you are confronted by a big emotional problem there are three possible responses, take flight and run away from the problem, stand and tackle it head on or freeze and do nothing. Or, in simple terms, you’re dealing with fear.
And, believe it or not, fear is a common response when you are trying to fix your breakup with your ex boyfriend . . .
Everyone is different and everyone’s particular fear will be different as well, it might be fear of rejection or the fear of making your breakup truly irreparable, it might be the fear of never finding someone else that you can feel for in the same way that you feel for your ex boyfriend. And… a multitude of other possibilities.
The very human response of fear can spur you into action or root you to the spot.
It’s an emotional problem and we don’t like being hurt emotionally, it’s the worst kind of pain. You can’t just take a few painkillers to make it go away.
It shouldn’t be that difficult to get a second chance with your ex boyfriend. . . to get him back in your life again should be easy, you did it once before. . .
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The second one is knowledge. With the right knowledge you KNOW what to do and how to do it.
It changes your fear responses because knowing how to handle your situation with certainty prevents you from freezing and gives you an alternative to running away from it.
In other words, knowledge helps you to take a stand and deal with your problems head on.
That’s why it all comes down to that ONE little thing, and in the end that ONE little things is simply… knowledge.
Knowing How To Get Him Back
When you’re trying to get your ex boyfriend back, knowing how to make him accept your call, or text, or IM is all important. That initial approach is crucial.
Knowing how to touch him emotionally and rekindle love and all those warm fuzzy feelings again is crucial.
Knowing what to avoid doing all the things that will kill your chances of getting your ex boyfriend back.
Knowing how to turn things round and have him chasing you, yes… it CAN be done, isn’t entirely crucial but is a much better and longer lasting way to get him back… forever.
Knowing how to forgive him and how to get forgiveness from him that will wipe the slate clean and give you both a fresh start.
To get him back is about knowing what you should be doing and what you should be avoiding. It’s an emotional journey that needs the clever use of psychology mixed into your plan. . .
Knowledge is the most important thing you need to get him back, and you can get that knowledge, a plan and more, by clicking here. . .
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Getting back with your ex doesn't have to be difficult!