How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend To Fall In Love With You Again
How to get your ex boyfriend back is your main focus just now, but is it enough?
I suspect what you really want is him to be in love with you again, WANTING to be with you. So emotionally wrapped up in YOU that the chance of a breakup would terrify him. . .
. . .So it’s not just about getting him back but doing it in such a way that he’ll never breakup with you again.
That’s what this site is all about. . . giving you a successful relationship.
Your Plan To Get Him Back
If you are serious and really want to capture his heart and get your ex boyfriend back then you need to be thinking in a completely new way while you form a workable strategy.
Yep, you need to put a real plan together if you want to be successful. Simply trying one thing at a time in a haphazard kind of way is going to make it very difficult for your efforts to be fruitful.
You probably haven’t been able to think of very many things to try. Most people can’t. What you should be doing is not always very obvious.
But trying to get your ex boyfriend back in such an ad-hoc kind of way certainly won’t give you the desired results you’re looking for.
You WILL need a plan.
There will be little chance of getting your breakup fixed without one. That’s where most people go wrong.
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Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Quickly
There is never a simple solution where broken relationships are concerned, but there are solutions that work surprisingly well and faster than all the ways you’ve been trying so far. So let’s start by getting rid of the things you’ve been doing, or thinking about doing, because they’re very likely to be the wrong ways of going about it.
You need to change the mindset of your ex. You need him to do the wanting, to want YOU back.
Trying to convince him to come back is NOT going to work, he won’t respond to that. In fact, it’ll push him further away. He’ll just become defensive and force him to keep his guard up.
Neither is the advice your girlfriends are giving you going to work.
Stop Listening to Your Girlfriends
I know, you love them dearly. You trust them, and just now while you’re desperately looking for inspiration of any kind to help, you want them to give you suggestions.
So why not listen to your girlfriends?
You know they have your back. You know they’re well meaning. But, do they really know any more than you do about rebuilding your ex boyfriend’s attraction to you and getting him back in your life again?
Do they understand how men think and how they form emotional attachments any better than you do?
When it comes to real workable methods to rebuild your relationship and get your ex back, they just may be steering you in the wrong direction. They could even, unknowingly, be hurting your chances of success.
Breaking up with the boy you still love is one of the most difficult things a girl can go through. When all is said and done, you have one overpowering thought going through your head – “I want him to love me again.”
Your girlfriends have been listening to you, giving you shoulders to cry on. They’ve even shared their super secret chocolate stashes with you to help you get through this crisis in your life.
Now, they’re offering you the best advice they have to give on how to get him back. But let’s face facts, their advice is based on the rules girls play by and they aren’t going to be all that effective at getting him back. If you really want to win him back, you’re going to have to play the game by his rules – to some degree.
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Playing a Girl’s Game the Boy’s Way
- Don’t let him see you coming. Being obvious with your intentions won’t work. If he gets, even a hint, that you’re trying to get him back, he’ll run the other way. So, don’t show your hand because he’ll constantly be watching and waiting for you to make your move and he’ll be prepared to fend you off.
- Show the world you’ve moved on. This means everyone, even your girlfriends. Smile. Put on a happy face. Go out and join the crowd. Fake it until you have everyone convinced that you truly have moved on.
- Let him know you’ve got game. An all over “new you” is what you need. Become the stronger, more independent woman you’ve always wanted to be. Get a makeover. Change your hair style. Learn to walk in those six-inch heels guys love so much. Become confident in your own skin. Once you’ve accomplished all this – then you let him see you coming and watch the fireworks as he takes in the “new you”.
Why does this work so well?
Love Is Mysterious
In relationships, taking each other for granted is a given. It happens to every couple and the longer you’re together, the more noticeable it becomes. The more you learn about each other, the fewer mysteries there are to uncover.
But now, you’re presenting him with a whole new you and many more mysteries to unlock. It’s a curious mystery he’s powerless to resist – especially if there ever were genuine feelings on his part.
And your girlfriends?
They love you regardless of whether you take their advice or not.
By helping him believe you’ve moved on without him will stir his interest in you all over again.
It’s a step in the right direction. It’s the beginnings of a plan. . .
What do you do now to finish your plan for getting him back?
Regardless of the reasons you split up, there are ways, techniques you can use that will make the whole process easier and much more positive. Methods based on psychology that bypass all the trauma of your breakup and reignite the flames of passion again. . . click the link below for a fuller explanation. . .
. . . Are you READY to take the next Step?
. . . You'll find that here when you are. . .
Getting back with your ex doesn't have to be difficult!