Don’t Give Up. . . It Doesn’t Mean She’s Over You. . .
You still want her back but she just ignores you and seems to be happy moving on without you. . .
Getting your ex back when she has moved on is heart wrenching, believe me, I’ve been there, I know exactly what you’re going through and that is why I wrote this post. . . by the time you’ve read it you’ll KNOW exactly how to make her as miserable without you as you are without her. — Or — to put it another way, how to make her happy to have you back.
Let’s face it, having to admit “My girlfriend dumped me.” is bad enough, but when she’s behaving like you were never even a couple. . . that’s just mean.
So, can you turn things round and get your ex girlfriend back when she has already moved on without you?
You’d think overcoming that, especially as you can’t even get her attention, seems impossible. Doesn’t it?
Well, you’re about to discover. . . it’s nowhere near as hard as you’re making it.
Why You’re Finding It Hard Making Up With Her
The reason you can’t get her attention is because your pain, your anguish over losing her and your fear of never getting her back again is making you too anxious and it’s getting in the way. . . it’s making you do everything wrong. . . which is pushing her even further from you. . . It’s making you look desperate.
And desperation NEVER wins!
It’s made her want to avoid you because she knows how you’ll react. . . She knows exactly what you are going to do. . . what you’ll say. . . and she’s well prepared, she knows how to deal with you. . .
But avoiding you is her easiest solution.
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Get Her Back The Right Way
Because of this, you have to stop doing whatever it is you’ve been doing up till now.
It hasn’t worked.
You are digging yourself into a hole and most likely panicking because nothing you have tried has made any difference, at least, not the difference you were hoping for.
So, why are you not succeeding?
Simply put. . . you are tackling it the wrong way.
But a little bit of clever psychology will go a long way to making you a couple again. . .
So now is the time to stop digging. . . Just because she’s moved on, possibly with someone else, doesn’t mean that’s the end.
I know you are not sure what you should be doing or where to turn for help and you feel you’ve lost all control. . .
Well. . .
. . . Don’t blame yourself for that, it’s exactly what normally happens, most people try all the obvious, but desperate, tactics and nearly all will fail.
That’s because they are simply the wrong techniques to use. (see this post about using psychology to fix your breakup.)
Use Better Methods To Get Her Back
Here’s a bit of good news though, there are less obvious and much less desperate methods available to you. . . ways to plant a seed in her mind. . .
And, if you did something that caused her to jump ship, don’t be put off. Almost anything you did can be resolved. . . all it takes is the right technique or method. . . and remember, even time and distance can be turned to your advantage, if you go about it the right way!
Have you considered this…
Does She Secretly Want You Back Again?
Relationship breakups don’t have to be permanent. She may even WANT you back again, but is waiting for you to make the right moves, do or say the right things. . . but you’re failing to do that. . .
She may just want you to demonstrate that things will be different.
Making up and getting her back in your arms again isn’t about mulling it round in your head and doing nothing… it’s about using a proper plan!. . . and taking ACTION!
Or she may even just be wanting you to rekindle all the passion and desire she once had. . . which, by the way, is an excellent tactic to win her back in any case. And, it gives you the opportunity to give her a nudge in the right direction by tinkering with her female emotions and desires. . .
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That includes reminding her of some of the best times that you spent together. Reminiscing can help to rekindle her emotional ties to you. It can be very effective.
These good memories will help her remember how good the two of you were as a couple. Let the bad memories stay in the past, don’t bring them up at all, they’ll do you no good. Recalling your good times and avoiding your bad times is always a better method to help you win her back.
Just remember, women will seldom spell it out for you, you’re supposed to know what she wants. . .
If You Really Want To Get Your Ex Back When She Has Moved On
Do something positive!
As I said above, taking action is the most important part of getting your ex girlfriend back.
Do nothing and nothing will ever change. . .
Here’s a great explanation of the best action you need to take to get her back in your arms again. . . and turn the whole experience into fun while you do it. . .
. . . a way to address all the problems I outlined above and a whole lot more, like how to rekindle all that love and passion, getting out (or staying out) of the friendship zone. . . planting that all-important seed in her mind. . . forcing her to focus on YOU. . .
Remember. . . A goal without a plan is just a wish! Click To Tweet
do you want to keep winging it. . .
or do you really want her back?
. . . know which of her buttons to press to succeed?
. . . get her to rediscover all those warm and fuzzy feelings she had for you?
. . . Are you READY to take the next Step?
. . . You'll find that here when you are. . .
Getting back with your ex doesn't have to be difficult!